I'm so angry at my mother right now?

holy crap. i dont know what to say...ummm well she thinks shes doing the best for you, i have a control FREAK mom too and let me tell ya im 20 and she still tries to control my thongs lol just take a deep breath and tell your mom your going to meet him when youre ready. who cares if your labeled the a hole but at least you dont meet him when youre not ready and hold some resentment towards your mom or even him.